"God Is Your First Husband": DJ Cuppy Inspires Single 30+ Women With Isaiah 54 Message [VIDEO]

 

Renowned Nigerian disc jockey and philanthropist, Florence Ifeoluwa Otedola, widely recognized as DJ Cuppy, has shared an emotional and spiritually uplifting message aimed at single women navigating life in their 30s. With a heart of compassion and vulnerability, she opened up about her personal journey, encouraging women not to despair in the face of societal expectations around marriage and partnership.

Cuppy, daughter of Nigerian billionaire Femi Otedola, used her platform to connect with women who may be struggling with loneliness, self-worth, or societal pressure, reminding them that their value is not defined by marital status. Her message, which she referred to as a “season of solidarity,” resonated deeply with many, particularly those who feel overlooked or discouraged in a society where women often feel compelled to meet certain milestones by a specific age.

A source of strength for her during these reflective moments has been a particular verse from the Bible: Isaiah 54:5 — “For your Maker is your husband—the Lord Almighty is his name—the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth.” This scripture, according to Cuppy, has become a personal anchor, grounding her through moments of doubt and serving as a powerful reminder of divine companionship.

In her heartfelt video shared on Instagram this past Saturday, Cuppy expressed that she often reflects on her current season of life and realizes that she is likely not alone. Many women, she believes, find themselves measuring their worth through relationships, while underestimating their own individual victories and inner strength.

She described her current life phase as one of “solidarity,” a moment of personal discovery and spiritual growth, rather than deficiency. “A lot of my wins and my value,” she said, “is not necessarily with and from a partner.” This assertion stood as a bold and empowering declaration, especially coming from a high-profile celebrity often scrutinized in the public eye.

Cuppy stressed that the relationship every woman must prioritize is the one with God. By citing Isaiah 54:5, she reminded her audience that the Creator is ultimately the one who sustains and fulfills — not human relationships. “That verse reminds me that anyone I fantasise about — my perfect man, my perfect partner — he was created by the creator,” she noted. “That means that we shouldn’t put anyone where God should be.”

The essence of her message pointed to a deep spiritual truth: that God is sufficient and ever-present, capable of filling any emotional voids or unmet desires. For women feeling incomplete without a partner, Cuppy urged a shift in focus — from seeking validation in another person to recognizing the completeness that already exists through divine love.

Her tone, while spiritual, remained rooted in practical encouragement. She didn’t dismiss the longing for partnership but instead emphasized patience and trust in divine timing. “While you are waiting,” she said, “know that the right person will come at the right time.” She concluded with the reassuring message that what is meant for an individual will never pass them by.

The DJ’s openness comes at a time when conversations about singleness, especially among women over 30, are becoming more mainstream. Social pressures, cultural narratives, and internalized expectations often weigh heavily on unmarried women, making her message not only timely but deeply necessary.

Rather than succumb to despair or feel less-than, Cuppy’s call to action is for women to find strength in their faith and identity outside of romantic relationships. Her vulnerability in sharing her own reflections gave weight to her words and allowed others to see a different side of her — one marked by grace, courage, and hope.

By using her influential voice to address such a personal and widely relatable issue, DJ Cuppy reminded her followers that their journey is not without purpose. Her message to women everywhere is clear: Your worth is not tied to your relationship status. Your life has value, your dreams are valid, and above all, God has not forgotten you.

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