Desperate for Change, Nigerian Man Seeks Fresh Start in Safer African Country With 7 Million Naira Budget

 

A New Beginning: Nigerian Father Searches for Safety and Opportunity Across African Borders

Hope can be a powerful force when frustration reaches a boiling point. For one Nigerian man, the weight of rising insecurity, economic instability and the daily grind of survival has pushed him to a breaking point. In a heartfelt public plea, he has taken to social media and local forums, seeking advice from fellow Africans. His goal is clear. With ₦7 million, he wants to relocate to a safer, more stable African country, leaving behind the mounting uncertainty of Nigeria.

This man, a husband and father, is not alone in his desire. Across the country, thousands share the same frustration. The rising cost of living, job insecurity and the ever-looming threat of violence have made many question their future. He, however, has taken a bold first step. He’s ready to leave. If necessary, he’ll go ahead of his wife and young son, settle down, and bring them over later once things stabilize.

The man’s request was simple but striking: “Good day my people, I am so desperate to leave this country and relocate with my wife and son. I want a good Africa country I can move to with 7 million naira. Though my wife and son can stay for now and join me later. I wish to start any good business there. This country don tire me abeg.”

What followed was an outpouring of responses. From Ghanaians to Rwandans, from Kenyans to South Africans, Africans from across the continent offered advice, encouragement and caution. Each suggestion was rooted in lived experience and shared struggle.

Ghana was frequently mentioned. Close in proximity, with a relatively stable democracy, English-speaking population and friendly visa conditions, it has long been seen as a favorite for West Africans looking for a change without going too far. Some warned of the rising cost of accommodation in Accra, but others pointed to smaller cities like Kumasi or Tamale where living is more affordable. With ₦7 million, which is roughly $4,500 USD, one could rent a modest apartment, set up a food-related business or even start small-scale retail trading.

Rwanda also stood out as a top contender. Often hailed as one of the safest countries in Africa, Rwanda’s government is known for strict policies on security and cleanliness. Kigali, the capital, offers a surprisingly peaceful environment, good infrastructure and growing business opportunities. However, French and Kinyarwanda are more widely spoken than English, which may pose a short-term challenge. Still, several Nigerian migrants already living there praised the ease of setting up small businesses and the efficiency of the local systems.

Kenya also found its way into the conversation. With Nairobi being a hub for startups and international trade, many pointed to the potential for success, especially in food services or digital work. However, visa restrictions and the cost of setting up as a foreigner were raised as concerns. “You need a work permit and good local networks,” one contributor advised, “but once you’re in, Kenya can open many doors.”

South Africa was suggested with caution. The opportunities are real, especially in Johannesburg and Cape Town, but the risks of xenophobia remain. Nigerians have historically faced violence in certain communities, particularly when they succeed in competitive industries. However, others shared stories of successful integration, especially for those who respect local customs and avoid high-risk areas.

Among the advice was a recurring message: research deeply, connect with those already on the ground, and be flexible. “No country is perfect,” one responder wrote. “But if you go with your eyes open, you will find a better life.”

From a practical standpoint, experts suggest that ₦7 million can go a long way if managed wisely. A solo relocation, renting a room or shared flat, living modestly and starting a low-capital business such as food vending, logistics or digital services could all be achievable.

This man’s story reflects the growing number of Nigerians, especially young families, considering intra-African migration as a more affordable alternative to relocating overseas. For many, Europe and the United States are financially out of reach. But a move within the continent feels more realistic and culturally familiar.

At the heart of it all is a cry for peace, progress and protection. As millions of Africans dream of better futures, this father's hope could one day become a story of triumph, not only for himself, but for the family he hopes to reunite with in a new land of opportunity.

He is not just running from Nigeria’s problems, he is chasing a future worth believing in.