Ruth Kadiri Shares Why Keeping Her Marriage Private Has Been Her Strongest Relationship Decision Yet

 

Nollywood actress and producer Ruth Kadiri Ezerika has opened a window into her personal life, shedding light on a decision that she says has brought peace and clarity to her journey as both a wife and a public figure. Known for her talent on screen and her growing impact in the Nigerian film industry, Kadiri rarely speaks about her family life. However, during a recent appearance on the Dear Ife series hosted by media personality Ifedayo Agoro, she offered rare insight into why she chose to keep her marriage away from public scrutiny.

The mother of two expressed gratitude for her choice, describing it as one of the wisest decisions she has ever made. Speaking with calm conviction, Kadiri explained that shielding her marriage from the spotlight has helped her maintain balance, both emotionally and professionally. It has also kept her relationship protected from the weight of public expectations, something she believes many celebrities struggle with in silence.

Rather than view privacy as secrecy, Kadiri framed it as a boundary that allows her family to thrive without interference. She emphasized that those close to her are familiar with her husband and that he is very much present in her life and work, contrary to speculation that she hides him.

“I think it was the best decision I ever made because it has helped me stay grounded,” she said. “It has helped me define my relationship. I don’t have external factors deciding how I deal or relate with my spouse.”

Kadiri also highlighted how her husband benefits from this privacy. Without being publicly identified or frequently discussed, he is able to live his life free from societal pressures, online judgment, or unwelcome commentary from fans and critics alike. According to her, this freedom has only strengthened their relationship, creating space for authenticity and growth between them.

She pointed out a common but often overlooked challenge in the entertainment industry – the pressure celebrity marriages face when exposed to public opinion. By consciously choosing to create boundaries, Kadiri believes she has preserved a sacred space for herself and her partner, even as her career continues to soar.

“Marital pressures as celebrities is also something we don’t talk about a lot,” she noted. “And seeing that my career is thriving at this point, I keep telling myself thank God there’s an aspect of me that I can stand on and control.”

Kadiri made it clear that her husband is not invisible, nor is she attempting to create any air of mystery. The decision is purely practical and personal. She revealed that the couple often attend events together and are seen in public settings, especially church gatherings and functions she hosts. Yet, because he is not interested in social media or public life, he remains largely unknown to those outside their circle.

“My husband is not a secret. People who know me know him. That’s enough,” she said. “I’m not hiding my husband. We go to church together, events they post his pictures. Most events I organize, he is there.”

What’s more, Kadiri shared a glimpse into her husband’s online presence. Unlike many spouses of celebrities who might be tempted to build their own social media personas, he prefers to stay offline or only post inspirational and religious messages. She described him as someone who is deeply private by nature, a trait that aligns with the kind of peace they have nurtured together.

“Check his social media page. He posts only the word of God, not even his pictures. He is private,” she added.

Kadiri’s candidness reveals a refreshing perspective in a culture that often prizes visibility and constant public engagement. Her story serves as a reminder that behind every successful public figure is a set of personal values and boundaries that help sustain their well-being.

As the entertainment world continues to evolve, Ruth Kadiri’s approach to protecting her personal life might just offer a template for others seeking to balance fame and family without compromise.