BBnaija Alumni Pere Egbi Breaks Silence, Calls for Compassion and Change in Heartfelt Message to President Tinubu

 

Reality TV star and Nollywood actor Pere Egbi has sparked national conversation following his impassioned open letter addressed to President Bola Tinubu, urging him to acknowledge the deep wounds suffered by millions of Nigerians and to chart a new path forward based on compassion, conscience and responsible leadership.

Voicing the concerns of countless citizens who feel increasingly disillusioned, Pere did not hold back. He painted a raw and painful picture of a country on the brink, filled with broken spirits, dashed hopes and lingering resentment. For many Nigerians, the years of political mismanagement, economic hardship and failed promises have become an unbearable burden. In his message, Pere did not seek confrontation but rather called for empathy and transformation.

“Nigeria is hurting,” he wrote. “Millions are broken. Many have lost faith in our political leaders, not because they want to, but because the pain left behind has fermented into bitterness and hate.” His words echoed the sentiments of a population that has struggled to survive amidst rising inflation, unemployment and insecurity.

Rather than cast blame alone, Pere offered a sliver of hope. While acknowledging that he does not agree with all of President Tinubu’s policies, he emphasized his belief that the president still holds the power to redirect the country’s story. His message was a challenge as much as it was a plea, urging Tinubu to rise above political interest and connect with the emotional and psychological needs of Nigerians.

“There is still time,” Pere seemed to suggest through the tone of his letter. “Time to do what is right, not just politically but morally.”

Pere's letter wasn't just a message to the presidency. It was also a broader reflection on the state of public discourse and the role of citizens in shaping national healing. He turned his focus toward those who took to social media to rejoice at the passing of a former Nigerian president. The jubilations and scornful remarks, according to him, reflect a growing desensitization among the people.

“Blast him while he’s alive. Express your displeasure while he’s breathing... But once he’s gone, for the sake of those he left behind... show some restraint,” he appealed in a separate post. He made it clear that restraint does not mean agreement, nor does it excuse the past. However, he believes there must be a line between justifiable anger and mimicking the very cruelty people once condemned.

The actor further elaborated that refusing to hurl insults at a deceased leader is not equivalent to excusing the pain their leadership might have caused. “Blaming him for hardship and loss is valid. What’s not valid is assuming that not cursing a dead man equals endorsing his actions,” he added.

These reflections highlight a much deeper issue within the country’s collective psyche. Pain has turned into rage, and outrage has, in some cases, become a form of expression many see as justified. Yet, Pere warns that without conscious efforts to rise above bitterness, healing remains a distant dream.

“You don’t correct injustice by becoming just as cold and heartless… Celebrating death doesn’t heal, it simply mimics the cruelty we claim to oppose,” he concluded.

His message has resonated widely across social media platforms, where responses have been mixed. Some applauded his courage and maturity in confronting uncomfortable truths, while others questioned whether appeals like his make any real difference in a country so battered by broken systems and unkept promises.

Regardless of the reaction, Pere’s open letter has contributed meaningfully to national discourse. It’s a reminder that leadership does not reside in political office alone. Sometimes, it emerges in voices that rise from the crowd, echoing the pain of the people while challenging everyone, from leaders to citizens, to reflect, reconsider and rebuild.

At a time when polarization and distrust dominate public conversation, his words stand as both a critique and a call to action. Whether or not those in power will listen remains to be seen. What is certain is that Nigerians are watching, hurting and hoping.